Guide
Tasting Room Etiquette for First-Time Visitors
A first visit to a tasting room raises a set of small questions that nobody answers out loud: do you pay, do you tip, do you have to spit, do you have to buy. Here is how it actually works in the United States, and how it differs from region to region.
Fees and what you get
Nearly every American winery charges for tasting. Expect $15 to $30 for four to six pours at most wineries, $40 to $75 in Napa, and more for seated or food-paired experiences. The fee is usually waived or credited if you buy two or more bottles, and wine-club members taste free. Small producers in Missouri, Texas or the Finger Lakes may still pour for $5 or nothing at all.
Reservations
Napa Valley wineries are largely reservation-only, a legacy of county rules and of the pandemic. Sonoma, Paso Robles and the Willamette Valley are mixed: the bigger names book up, the rest take walk-ins. Almost everywhere else a walk-in is fine on a weekday; on a Saturday in harvest season, book. Groups of six or more should always call ahead, and many wineries decline groups of eight or more entirely.
At the bar
Tastings run light to heavy, white to red, dry to sweet. It is fine to skip a wine, ask for a re-pour of one you liked, or ask for water. Hold the glass by the stem so the bowl stays clear. Every tasting room provides a dump bucket, and using it is not an insult: professionals spit or pour out every wine, and if you are driving you should too. Four wineries at six pours each is two bottles of wine.
Strong perfume or cologne makes the wine impossible to smell for everyone at the bar. Leave it off.
Tipping and buying
Tipping is not expected at a stand-up bar tasting, though a few dollars for good service is welcome and increasingly common. For a seated, hosted or food-paired experience, tip as you would a restaurant server, 15 to 20 percent of the fee. Buying is never obligatory, but the fee-waiver structure means one or two bottles often cost little more than the tasting, and small wineries live on tasting-room sales. If you are flying home, most will ship where the law allows; the shipping guide explains which states.
Children, dogs and picnics
Children are usually allowed on the property but not at the bar, and many Napa wineries prohibit them under 21 altogether. Dogs are welcome outdoors at a surprising number of wineries, especially in Oregon, Virginia and Colorado; the dog guide covers the rules. Outside food is fine at wineries that advertise picnic grounds and not at those with restaurants. Check the winery’s own site, then use the map to plan the day.
Frequently Asked Questions
Tasting Room Etiquette for First-Time Visitors: where does this information come from?
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